Strengthen the Families in Your Church

Equip parents to lead their homes with purpose, vision, and biblical values.

Help parents become the primary spiritual leaders of their homes.

Pastors care deeply about the spiritual health of families, but many parents have never been taught how to lead their homes intentionally.

Ben Langhofer is a John Maxwell Leadership Coach and Certified DISC Trainer who helps churches equip families with practical tools for building strong homes.

Watch this short overview to see how Ben helps churches equip families to lead their homes with clarity, purpose, and shared values.

Families Are Searching for Direction

Parents today are overwhelmed.

They want to raise children with strong faith, values, and character but many feel unequipped to lead their families intentionally.

Churches play a vital role in discipling families, but parents often need practical leadership tools they can apply at home.

About

Meet Ben Langhofer

Ben Langhofer is the creator of the Family Pillars Framework, a practical system that helps families define their mission, cast a vision for their future, establish core values, and create a code of conduct for their home.

He is also a John Maxwell Certified Leadership Coach, Certified DISC Personality Trainer, and the founder of Creed Culture, Inc., a nonprofit organization dedicated to strengthening families and culture through intentional leadership.

As the father of three children through adoption, Ben understands firsthand the importance of building families rooted in faith, values, and purpose.

Ben grew up in a family deeply committed to strengthening families. His parents founded the Pregnancy Crisis Center in Wichita, where Ben witnessed the life-changing impact of supporting parents and children.

He is also the author of 'BabyTalk For Mommy,' a book written to encourage and support mothers during difficult pregnancy decisions.

Before focusing on speaking and family leadership, Ben spent over a decade working directly with pastors and churches as a retirement and estate planning advisor helping pastors safeguard their retirement and navigate complex financial and estate planning decisions. Through this work, Ben developed a deep appreciation for the unique pressures and responsibilities pastors carry in caring for their families and congregations.

Ben was mentored by Dr. Guy Baker, a nationally recognized expert in advanced estate planning and ministry financial strategies.

Today Ben helps churches equip families with practical tools to define their mission, cast a vision for their future, establish core values, and create a code of conduct for their homes.

Through years of working alongside pastors and church leaders, Ben understands the unique responsibility pastors carry in shepherding families. His passion is to equip parents with practical leadership tools that help faith and values take root in everyday family life.

Bring Intentional Family Leadership to Your
Church

Ben offers flexible event formats to fit your church's needs.

Sunday Service Message

Parent Leadership Workshop

Family Leadership Seminar

DISC Training for Church Staff

Men's or Parenting Events

Suggested Church Event Formats

Here are a few ways churches typically partner with Ben to serve their families.

Family Leadership Sunday

Ben delivers a Sunday morning message focused on intentional family leadership and encourages parents to define the mission, vision, and values of their homes.

Optional follow-up parent workshop later that day.

Parent Leadership Workshop

A focused workshop designed specifically for parents. Families learn practical tools for defining their family mission, establishing values, and building a healthy family culture.

Family Leadership Weekend

A two-part event where Ben speaks on Sunday morning and then leads a deeper seminar or workshop for parents and families.

What Families Learn

How to define a family mission

How to create a compelling family vision

How to establish core family values

How to build a strong family culture

How to create a practical family code of conduct

What Happens When Ben Comes to Your Church

When Ben speaks at a church, families walk away with a clear and practical framework for leading their homes intentionally.

Parents learn how to define a family mission, cast a vision for their future, establish core values, and create shared expectations that guide everyday decisions.

These tools help parents become more confident leaders in their homes and strengthen the culture of families throughout the church.

The Framework

The Family Pillars Framework

The Family Pillars framework gives families a clear, actionable system to document and implement their mission, vision, values, and expectations creating a shared foundation that guides everyday life.

Mission

Vision

Values

Code of Conduct

Let's Equip the Families in Your Church

Schedule a free discovery call to learn how Ben can serve your church and help families lead with purpose.

Schedule a short discovery call to explore how this message could serve the families in your church.

Ben Langhofer

Partnering with parents, churches, and leaders to build intentional family cultures.

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